tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16760936.post1495669758322014544..comments2024-03-28T15:13:45.925+08:00Comments on Good Morning Yesterday: Special ‘father moments’Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16760936.post-36744490024431677682011-06-20T12:19:42.460+08:002011-06-20T12:19:42.460+08:00Last week I spent 5 full days with my family at th...Last week I spent 5 full days with my family at the church camp in Msia (thank God no traffic jam). We had a great time and many meals together. After that, there was little need for a Father's Day celebration.Lam Chun Seehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01762020157703342970noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16760936.post-32700546532302233452011-06-20T11:17:54.512+08:002011-06-20T11:17:54.512+08:00Like u Chun See I didnt know Sunday was Fathers Da...Like u Chun See I didnt know Sunday was Fathers Day until my sons proposed to makan.<br /><br />I told them,a simple meal or drinks will do and if it's a bowl of wanton soup or a San Miguel in a less pleasant establishment, it's still a good thought.<br /><br />Though I have sat and eaten in the some of the best restaurants and dine even at kopi-tiams, it takes more than a meal to bond family members. <br /><br />The constant times one spends with one's parents over the years beats dining on an annual basis.peternoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16760936.post-87244461466834916192011-06-20T09:57:47.892+08:002011-06-20T09:57:47.892+08:00Thanks Hui Hwang for your thoughtful remarks. Your...Thanks Hui Hwang for your thoughtful remarks. Your students are blessed to have such a dedicated teacher. All the best for you endeavours. My daugter incidentally - the one who sat on my lap - has just been awarded an MOE scholarship. That would make her the second teacher in our family.<br /><br />I did not know that yesterday was Father's Day. Otherwise, I would have delayed posting my article. Anyway, our family do not consciously celebrate Father's Day, or Mother's Day; and definitely not Valentine's Day. Just don't see the meaning or need actually.Lam Chun Seehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01762020157703342970noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16760936.post-34894040859493345122011-06-19T15:45:16.990+08:002011-06-19T15:45:16.990+08:00Dear Mr Lam
Mr James Seah encouraged me to post my...Dear Mr Lam<br />Mr James Seah encouraged me to post my comments here, so here I am. Thanks lots for his introduction to a wonderful piece written about fathers. I am sure both you and James have been very good fathers. I like the examples or moments you have shared. I am going to use this topic to teach my composition lesson when term starts in a week's time. Cats in the cradle is a very good song for use as a trigger to introduce this topic to my students.<br /><br />Thank you so much. I must thank James for the ability to source for good stories to share with us readers. I shall also use this song for my SGS School Library Facebook page today in honour of our dear fathers. I started this page for my school library in order to reach out to more students who are reluctant readers. This gives me ideas to start a Father's Day topic for the students and to allow me to look for books related to fathers and children. <br /><br />Many thanks, Mr Lam, for the fine resources that are very relevant for use as authentic teaching materials. Thanks, James for including me in your circle whenever there are useful learning points to share and make.<br /><br />With warmest regards<br />Hui Hwangsim hui hwanghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04497812955445397547noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16760936.post-63746168588973928312011-06-09T18:06:56.692+08:002011-06-09T18:06:56.692+08:00Wonderful. Learning to drive at an early age on Da...Wonderful. Learning to drive at an early age on Dad's lap. Cheers!Thimbuktuhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04495581875211093357noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16760936.post-84425820250474810762011-06-08T10:58:33.764+08:002011-06-08T10:58:33.764+08:00My youngest daughter remembers that whilst they ha...My youngest daughter remembers that whilst they happily climb into my car before I drive into the house, she would like to sit on my lap and pretend to operate the steering wheel.<br /><br />How time flies. Now 2 of the three already have their own driving license.Lam Chun Seehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01762020157703342970noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16760936.post-28115498182189585052011-06-07T11:22:05.062+08:002011-06-07T11:22:05.062+08:00Thank you Chun See.
A great blog on 'special ...Thank you Chun See.<br /><br />A great blog on 'special father moments' which will inspire every father to share with us.<br /><br />A few years ago, I posted a similar topic on "Loving Moments with My Kids" <a href="http://lovingmomentswithmykids.blogspot.com/2009/12/loving-moments-with-my-kids.html" rel="nofollow"> here </a>.<br /><br />The lyrics of "Cats in the cradle" by Harry Chaplin below:<br /><br />"Cats In The Cradle"<br /><br />My child arrived just the other day<br />He came to the world in the usual way<br />But there were planes to catch and bills to pay<br />He learned to walk while I was away<br />And he was talkin' 'fore I knew it, and as he grew<br />He'd say "I'm gonna be like you dad<br />You know I'm gonna be like you"<br /><br />And the cat's in the cradle and the silver spoon<br />Little boy blue and the man on the moon<br />When you comin' home dad?<br />I don't know when, but we'll get together then son<br />You know we'll have a good time then<br /><br />My son turned ten just the other day<br />He said, "Thanks for the ball, Dad, come on let's play<br />Can you teach me to throw", I said "Not today<br />I got a lot to do", he said, "That's ok"<br />And he walked away but his smile never dimmed<br />And said, "I'm gonna be like him, yeah<br />You know I'm gonna be like him"<br /><br />And the cat's in the cradle and the silver spoon<br />Little boy blue and the man on the moon<br />When you comin' home son?<br />I don't know when, but we'll get together then son<br />You know we'll have a good time then<br /><br />Well, he came home from college just the other day<br />So much like a man I just had to say<br />"Son, I'm proud of you, can you sit for a while?"<br />He shook his head and said with a smile<br />"What I'd really like, Dad, is to borrow the car keys<br />See you later, can I have them please?"<br /><br />And the cat's in the cradle and the silver spoon<br />Little boy blue and the man on the moon<br />When you comin' home son?<br />I don't know when, but we'll get together then son<br />You know we'll have a good time then<br /><br />I've long since retired, my son's moved away<br />I called him up just the other day<br />I said, "I'd like to see you if you don't mind"<br />He said, "I'd love to, Dad, if I can find the time<br />You see my new job's a hassle and kids have the flu<br />But it's sure nice talking to you, Dad<br />It's been sure nice talking to you"<br /><br />And as I hung up the phone it occurred to me<br />He'd grown up just like me<br />My boy was just like me<br /><br />And the cat's in the cradle and the silver spoon<br />Little boy blue and the man on the moon<br />When you comin' home son?<br />I don't know when, but we'll get together then son<br />You know we'll have a good time then.Thimbuktuhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04495581875211093357noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16760936.post-51001660423008349162011-06-05T17:37:17.938+08:002011-06-05T17:37:17.938+08:00I dare say I gave up a 1/4 of my life on parenting...I dare say I gave up a 1/4 of my life on parenting. Was it worth it? Sure.<br /><br />Now my time to do the things that I could not when I was parenting. This is fair deal.peternoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16760936.post-15574025398333154422011-06-05T14:19:40.299+08:002011-06-05T14:19:40.299+08:00I am not surprised of my muddling up of your early...I am not surprised of my muddling up of your early years of education, shuttling from chinese school to ACS Barker Rd/coleman str to brs...I myself faced this dilema. When our parents resided at lorong 14 Geylang, I studied a year in a chinese pr.school named happy pr.school saluting to a national chinese flag every morning singing a patriotic song which went like this: "ko chi ko chi...", literarly meaning beautiful flag you are really beautiful etc, but ended up very unhappy. So my father enrolled me to a far-away english school called Serangoon English School at Simon Road, upper Serangoon Rd. By then, after 2 yrs, our family had moved to my grandma kampong house at lorong kinchir and again I was relocated to a nearer brs pr.school. Well that was the reality of life, nothing to complain about. Until now, after many yrs, this story resurfaces in gmy.Zennoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16760936.post-12446102380926731372011-06-04T23:10:09.764+08:002011-06-04T23:10:09.764+08:00My Pr 1 was spent in ACS Barker Rd, not Coleman St...My Pr 1 was spent in ACS Barker Rd, not Coleman St.Lam Chun Seehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01762020157703342970noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16760936.post-65277828077305699952011-06-04T22:34:54.514+08:002011-06-04T22:34:54.514+08:00Chun See shouldn't feel being embarassed by hi...Chun See shouldn't feel being embarassed by his ACS pr.school oral english test encounter. Frankly speaking kampong folks those days never send their kids to kindergarten - hence deficiency in oral english was quite understandable. Worst at the tender age of 5, my father enrolled, or rather arranged with a chinese pr.school(chong boon) principal to slot him into a pr.1 -mandarin speaking class. Poor chun see I was told by my mother sometimes fell asleep in the class - in fact he was too young to attend a pr. 1 class. When he was suddenly 'thrusted' into a distinguished english school (ACS pr.school at coleman street) which far away in town from lorong chuan, he was like a fish out of water, a rude shock for an innocent kampong kid.Zennoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16760936.post-15109046156252566192011-06-04T10:17:04.840+08:002011-06-04T10:17:04.840+08:00Thank you Chun See for the write-up and song. I re...Thank you Chun See for the write-up and song. I remember the lyrics and music and realise that as long as we have family our days are not over as parents or grandparents.ANDY: Pop Music Not Pills. ©https://www.blogger.com/profile/10946638825812052608noreply@blogger.com